JUST FRIENDS?

 Many people think men and women can’t be friends. What is the reason behind this idea? Is it because of the sexual tension? Or the possible complications that may occur? I don’t know but I don’t agree with them. Men and women can be in fact should be friend because they need eachother in daily life, they can consult eachother about their relationships and this is less drama for women.

 First of all we all have to interact at places like work, school etc. The friendship makes it easy to tolerate some things that happens at these places. You can ask for help or discuss the stuations. It may even help you to like what you do more. It should not be an obligation to be friends though. You should be friends because you want to.

 Being there for you is not the only reason. You can also consult them when you have a fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend and have a different point of view to consider. They may understand them better than you and give you advice about the relationship. This might help you to strengthen your relationship.

 Lastly, and most importantly for me, as a woman you have less drama when you have male friends instead of female ones. You can trust them with your secrets more than girls because they don’t do that much gossip.

 So when you want to ve friends with someone you should not consider their gender but you should whether they are good for you or not.